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Quote by AestusOuch man thats worse than my worst story. It will go away once you open up to other people, start dating others (try picking ones unlike that heartless cow).
Time heals all, getting new friends is a change, seems to me like you're moving up and on.

Thanks for the answer.
You are so true about the ``heartless cow`` name because
when we spoke on the phone, she told me that since the breakup now that i've started looking out and try to have a date every now and then, she said that was a total lack of respect from me toward her because it seemed to her that she was just a number for me after all.....

....... excuse me to state the fricking obvious here but she's the one who lacks respect because SHE is the one who is actually IN a relationship right now..... lol?

Thanks again for the reply. So far, ever since the whole thing, we never spoke to each other again and for me, so far, so good.......

Let's just see if at my b-day (sept 5th) she'll at least call to say happy b-day. According to my ever constant bad luck, she might LOL

Nah she probly wont call, that about the lack of respect thing was her trying to string you along, just in case she changes her mind. You're better off wishing her a nice life and getting on with your own.

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Quote by ealpha-scorpio[quo(...) is what I would do in you're shoes: I would cope with it ASAP, because if your boy, & ex-girlfriend want to be straight ass holes then you know what fuck em. You don't need that, you can get with better. She obviously had doubts the first time she asked if you wanted to be with her. Move on they're both not worth it. If your "best friend" knew that you liked her, and he was seeing her knowing this then you need to get another best friend. I mean after all the best revenge is: Fuck friends. (Excuse my language)

That was what I was also thinking. You still call them your BEST FRIENDS, while all they did proved the opposite. You said that your ex-girlfriend is back-stabbing you, if she was fair with you she should have clear things between you two first, and then moved on with your supposedly BEST friend. As a girl, I think the best thing she should have done was to respect you and your past relationship together. From what you're explaining, it seemes none of those things matters to her. None of them were fair with you.
MOVE ON, even if you still like her, and try your chances with other girls. You'll eventually come to like one of them and hopefully, they'll value you more.

merged: 08-27-2007 ~ 12:58pm
And ( ) -I forgot to mention it- I don't think you made a mistake at all! You did the RIGHT thing although it hurt you a lot. YUP! You learned a great lesson at a very high price. BUT, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING, SO DON'T THINK OF IT AS A MISTAKE.

thnxs for the comment. It felt really helpful but yet again, I don't understand what you mean about that I did the right thing and I shoudn't think of it as a mistake.... Could you please explain? ^^

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Almost 3 months ago, i did my worst mistake : I started dating my best friend. ( a girl )

What I meant was that, you paid a high price in knowing your best friend. And, that she wasn't the best friend as you though she is. (Please don't get me wrong, I don't mean it that way. She still might be a very good girl, but definitely not for you) You didn't mistake in dating her, you just came to know her much better than before. So don't regret that you dated her. (Look at the brighter side instead of telling yourself that you made mistake)

Quote by juppu-kunYAY! hiarrrrrrrrrrrr! thank you me matey!
I'll costume you as Mario from Mario bros because he is THE dude! or if you are a girl the Princess Peach hahaha ^^

lol, Princess Peach it is, I guess.

But I wouldn't mind going as Mario (crossplay? ) because he rawks your sawks.

Quote by juppu-kunsasara is so sexyyyyyyyyyyyyy ^^
Keep it up! nice scan!

hi man!

many thx for this and the other comments!

have a good day/night! :P

see you around !

merged: 08-19-2006 ~ 04:24am

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Quote by jupp(...) is so sexyyyyyyyyyyyyy ^^
Keep it up! nice scan![/quote

hi man!

many thx for this and the other comments!

have a good day/night! :P

see you around !

My pleasure! i came across a picture of yours i wanted called:" in maid "but it was in quarantine.... Is there a way you could send it to me? thnxs in advance

give me your mail, and i'll gladly send it to you

merged: 08-19-2006 ~ 09:32pm
now i'm leaving this weekend, when i come back let's talk about sharing, ok?

:D

......... wow...... it would seem you sent the original message to yourself instead of me hehehehe....... Say..... you wouldn't happen to know if whether I'm a girl or not do you?

Haha....... ponder that for a while, but while your at it...... lets pray that this new soul in your life is kind, gentle, and will be able to be your soul mate....... for those you can love and be loved........... Alright, that's about enough of my babblings..... hehehehe.....

Wow, consider me impressed. You wrote a lot. You being alone for 17 years is also impressive.......... but at least you didn't have to wait 83 years and then die the next day.......... As for the "do you have any idea" part, I'm not sure, but I've been through many things, (beside girlfriends). But, just because I haven't had a girlfriend doesn't mean I don't know what it feels to be slapped in the face. I don't want to spell the beans just yet or even a litttle, so I do hope you realize that your not cold or dark. Your just confused and I might add........ weak. At least in the mind. If you still think I don't get it, slam me with harsh words. I'd like to hear them.

merged: 07-03-2006 ~ 01:37pm

Quote: 1- I have been single until i got 17 years old.... i dint had a gf before that

2-The "weakness" you describe isnt about the strengh of myself in the situation.... I woudn't not even qualify that as weak. Being weak is to run away from the situation a.k.a. suicide. I dint even f*cking thought of it once. She wasent worth it. I saw her once since the breakup and she acted like she never loved me even once. I were angry and devastated so i got home, drank alone alot and cut myself inside my hands and drawn a star on my belly with the unsharpened dagger she gave me at valentine's day. When i sobered up, i realized it was f*cking sick what i just done. I lightned up since and told myself she aint worth a sh*t to me anymore no matter how i loved her before and how i still little do now. I kept no scars of this "drunken mutilation". It was the first time i even did this and believe me it's the last too

Being strong is to keep on with it and move along. Yes, the scars may heal over like right now but before that, the anger, the feeling of loss, the confusion, the sorrow and being consumed by madness isnt a sign of weakness. Giving up is

I though for myself about this at work today and thought of what i could bring up to her face if she ever confronts me and try to b*tch on me at college. I am ready to counter her now. It's not revenge as far as i am concerned just to show her i wont crumble under my emotions and finally stand up against her constant attacks. If she dosent cause me trouble at college i wont do some to her either but if she does i'll tell her flaws to her face too.

And no i wont slam you with harsh words, you're still young. you havent felt all this yet....... Consider me your mentor if it happens to you. Since that breakup of mine. I have the strange capacity to settle broken couples again ......

Wow, you didn't have a girlfriend before 17. Big deal. I have a friend who didn't have his first girlfriend till he was 28. I don't intend to have one till I'm 18 or older.

As for the weak part........ you can't seem to drill into your head that weak is you "not being able to move along." Suicide isn't weak either. It's dead. You still seem to hate the girl, and with your guts. Your ready to go tell her to go screw herself into the ground if she starts to bad mouth you. That is weak cause you can't take it. To be strong is to end it with words of conviction. Take a Gandhi for example, he didn't use violence, but words to show the British that they were nut balls. Not to mention the move along part is far from where you are. You're still there, cursing her for all the pain she's caused you.

As for the scar metaphor, you have it wrong. Yes, your wounds have healed, but those scars haven't faded. If you can still hate her, those scars remain. The wounds are when you were devastated with the lost of your relationship. The scars are what the break up left behind, that is to say, anger and the sorry child's excuse "It's all her fault." For the scars to truely heal, is when that realtion no longer effects any longer. You being ready to counter her shows simply that the scars are not yet gone.

As for helping couples? What great irony. You can help others, but not yourself. Heh, it should be the other way around first.

As for being my mentor............ I think I'll pass cause I don't think you have what it takes. Just cause I'm younger than you for about 3 or 4 years makes you better than me? Just cause I'm younger, does that make me naïve? Really, I hate it when those older than me think they know so much. True, they know more than me at the moment, but they don't know everything, and that is where you fall into the trap. Just cause you been in this situation, you think you know how to deal with it now. Problem is, you haven't finished your own problem. Besides, I've had my own share of problems, and I'm still alive. To but it bluntly, I don't need a mentor, I can take care of myself.

After reading your messeage, I'd advise you to reconsider your choice of words. I know that I'm still a child, and I have no right to tell you anything, but you have to realize that you too are a child. You may have "more" experiences since you've been kicking longer, but the fact that some of our experiences are "different" shows that you lack significant knowledge to keep talking.

In some ways, you remind me of a child. You complain about your problems. You say that your dark and cold; and all the blame is never near you. I've had a difficult life, yet I don't complain; I never have. I'm happy where I am now and content with what I have. If you can see the difference, who's stronger do you think?

By the way, I liked you to know that I study humans for a hobby. And one way to study them is to go to a city and sit on a bench. Just for the day, watch everyone pass by, and take in what they do. If your unable to understand what this is suppose to teach, try again in another 20 years. At that time, if you look back at this debate that we are having now, it'll seem childish. You'll see that I was wrong in some areas, but so were you. That is of course, if your not in denial, which of course, is quite humorious. I do get a kick out of humans sometimes.............

Hi!^^
Thanks for your comment on my thread!
Have a nice week!

merged: 02-24-2006 ~ 01:36am
Maido!^^
Another "THANKS" for your reply on my other thread!
You are making me very happy!

merged: 03-05-2006 ~ 10:09pm
Chiwa1^^
Very special thanks for your replies on my threads!^^
Friends?

Hi Juppu-kun thanks for your comments on my scan of Digi Charat "Shakin that ass" and my other scan "Damn Rabbits" . I'm glad you liked the scans

Since it is almost holiday seasons and it is winter time, I will be writing a lot of poems that will revolve mainly around the going-ons of winter, winter, and spring. So expect me to write a lot of poems that I am sure I will do my best so everyone can enjoy them.

Beside beginning to write poems again after a short break, I will probably have a surprise for all my friends on MT. You all will know it soon enough.

tiens! je serais (would be?) content parler le francais avec vous aussi! j'ai ...um....te "added" a mon "friendlist." lol, i hope it wasnt too bad for a first try.

Wow I sincerely hope you and your girlfriend continue to hold that strong bond you both share!
And a guy could seem good looking and fit but if he is a jerk I could NOT CARE LESS. A very nice funny smart guy with a few extra pounds is definitely more of a catch!

Hi!
Thankyou very much for the comment you left on my Sensual Energy wallie
*waves* see you around